we do is because love you

● As long as people care like around. Many parents think their children as long as the people around them care, not dangerous like. In fact, from birth, children need to communicate with others: skin contact, hugging, pay attention, someone to talk to him ... ... in the absence of environmental concerns over the child will grow up thinking slow, lack of love, a sense of security.


● the child as a comparison. Some parents, about face, want to encourage children to better themselves, so often that you see people have more children work hard, good results and more. To their children and other children than can only bring unhappiness and suffering for himself and also harm the child's self-esteem. This comparison between the psychological parent may also lead to difficult.


● do not respect children's privacy and rights. Many parents hold the traditional belief that children are their parents, and not have to respect children's privacy and rights. So, not even after children grow up to respect not know how to respect others. Therefore,stop conniving and supporting \, the parents in their children room should first knock on the door, move or use the child's something he should be allowed, any decision to involve children and their children should first discuss and so on.


● kids specified direction. Many parents did not realize their own aspirations of their faith in children, and their own set of a almost equal to the child on the way to go, even if the child does not fit, do not like. For example, piano lessons, such as going abroad. Under these pressures, the family became unhappy, and harmonious parent-child relationships have been destroyed.


● the academic achievement of all performance indicators as. At school is not everything, comprehensive ability and character, is an important factor affecting future children.


● get up early that good sleep is more than laziness. Growing children need adequate sleep, but now many children less than 8 hours of sleep a day. Insufficient sleep affects growth.


● think that children should be learning all the time on. A survey shows that children often spend time in the future life happier. By dealing with family, children problem-solving skills will be enhanced, easier to grow before the face of frustration with the correct attitude. Some parents allow their children to learn, to keep the kids doing chores, thus limiting his learning to face the problem of shared responsibility and opportunity.


● a lack of humor and lighter side. Because of various pressures, some families of the basic atmosphere is forcing the children to learn. Parents because of life stress, loss of sense of humor and relaxed attitude between parent and child or between husband and wife in this tense atmosphere, a small conflict could ignite an explosion of conflict.


● that parents love their children any of the requested excuse. Many parents said their children often remark that: we do is because love you, for you Well. Parents should not have to love the child as a shield to make unreasonable demands. Love is not an excuse for whatever it wants.


● that the obligations of raising children is hard not to enjoy. Some parents used to bring up children as a hard duty, and often implicitly or explicitly their children to return, filial piety. More correct approach is that raising children is a gift of fate to enjoy. And children should enjoy the time to get along and enjoy the fun of watching them grow.