may she now Bukuai like that. But we will think

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chat with you today to this topic because they are aware of a such a story, 22-year-old woman set fire to life ring true to blame the parents at home, also threatened, said: \then go commit suicide. \say such a thing, to make such extreme things?

, of course, there are always things out because, as a child she faced the family of * power, secondary Shiyou contracted competition, want to, like the other students can have a lot of things, you can lavish spending; thus dropped out of the way they set foot. After working for themselves suffered quite a lot; a serious illness did she left a big scar, she was even more inferior. So she felt all this is caused by her parents.

see here, perhaps you will think she is the victim, but if I went down to say that you probably would not have had. Threat of her parents to buy her a knife that I bought her own brothers and sisters too scared to return home; she almost around the house to burn, and finally tortured dead than alive by her parents, she appears to have reached a wish, But this really have to make themselves happy?

this change has to go home Who is to blame, 22-year-old woman? Her parents? Denied, parents Di Jiao Yu is really very important, if they Nengzai her character timely taught her mutiny, Rang she learned turn grief into strength, may she now Bukuai like that. But we will think, why is it so blame her not to understand the hearts of parents, also born in poor families, others can be very hard to improve themselves alive, so selfish that she have to complain to her parents who . If a person's ability to self-regulation are not also how to face the future?

this matter tell us that Life itself is a difficult process from another hard towards the process, no matter what face to what suffered; we must learn to focus, but should learn in the face of adversity growth. Vanity Ye Hao, comparisons heart may be; want to have rich parents, rich life 也好. These ideas are not wrong, I would like every ordinary person will have. But these ideas to get you to rely on themselves rather than to blame and torture their family members to obtain these. There is a saying, by the way parents are after, her obligation to teach us how to life, but they could not promise us a better life,the sky will gradually clear up, they can only rely on our own efforts to obtain.

so we have to learn to meet adversity, and even turn adversity into another form of power. No wind and rain, which will mature in autumn; without the biting cold wind, which will be Evergreen's tough. In the face of adversity, do not blindly blame on others, to consider how to overcome many difficulties. Peterson said: \How is he not rich, but that he is in the face of difficult times to manage it in that form. If only blame others complain about life, the last he would descend into a loser. Stress tempering gives valuable opportunity for those who only stand the test of adversity and to become truly strong. As long as confidence, perseverance, courage, perseverance, a pragmatic spirit, even if seeing a dead end, still expect to be scenes of vista.

saying goes: \So, learn to grow in the face of adversity is important.

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